Elephant

The receiving partner lies on their back with legs slightly apart and knees relaxed. Place a pillow under the hips if needed to adjust the angle — comfort is essential for this slow-position approach.

Tip: The pillow under the hips also helps the G-spot angle, rated 3/5 in this position.

The penetrating partner enters at medium depth and stops. Do not move yet — pause fully to establish the connection and let both partners adjust to the sensation.

Tip: The pause is the foundation of this position. Rushing past it defeats the purpose.

Begin thrusting at the slowest pace you can manage. Each stroke should take 3-5 seconds from start to finish. Count silently if it helps maintain the pace.

Tip: If you find yourself speeding up, slow down deliberately. The pace is the entire point.

Press your chest against your partner's chest and keep your body close. Skin-to-skin contact across the torso amplifies the slow, sustained sensation.

Tip: The chest-to-chest contact also helps you feel your partner's breathing, which keeps you synchronized.

Let your body weight sink into each stroke. The slow, heavy pressure creates a deep, grounding sensation that fast movement cannot replicate.

Tip: Shift your weight slightly forward on each stroke to increase the downward pressure without speeding up.

Maintain the slow rhythm for as long as both partners want. The sustained pace builds a unique, gradual intensity that peaks differently from fast positions.

Tip: Communicate about when to speed up, slow down, or stop — the slow pace makes it easy to talk during the position.