Princess
A gentle, princess-like position with tender treatment.
About This Position
The receiving partner lies back comfortably while the penetrating partner treats them like a princess — gentle, attentive, and focused on their pleasure. This position prioritizes the receiving partner's comfort and enjoyment.
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Step-by-Step Guide
The receiving partner lies back comfortably while the penetrating partner treats them like a princess — gentle, attentive, and focused on their pleasure.
Tip: The princess position prioritizes the receiving partner's comfort and enjoyment above all else.
The penetrating partner enters gently, maintaining a slow, attentive pace. The focus is entirely on the receiving partner's pleasure.
Tip: Clitoral stimulation is rated 5/5 — the gentle angle and attentive approach optimize clitoral contact.
Use hands to caress, massage, and stimulate the receiving partner. The pampering approach includes non-genital touch.
Tip: The medium penetration depth is ideal for gentle, pleasure-focused stimulation.
Focus on the receiving partner's pleasure above all else. The princess position is about being pampered and adored.
Tip: The G-spot is rated 3/5 — the gentle angle creates moderate internal stimulation.
Maintain eye contact and verbal praise. The princess position is about making the receiving partner feel desired and special.
Tip: This is an Easy difficulty position — the gentle nature makes it very accessible.
Adjust the pace and angle based on the receiving partner's responses. Their pleasure is the only priority.
Tip: The face-to-face, chest-to-chest contact creates emotional intimacy.
The princess position is about being pampered and adored. Treat your partner like true royalty.
Tip: The inner thighs and core lightly engage during the gentle movement.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Very gentle and pampering
- + Focus on the receiving partner's pleasure
- + Comfortable and relaxing
Cons
- - Can be passive for the penetrating partner
- - Limited intensity
Tips
- * Treat your partner like true royalty
- * Focus on their pleasure above all else
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Princess position:
The penetrating partner being selfish
The princess position is entirely about the receiving partner's pleasure. If the penetrating partner focuses on their own enjoyment, the position loses its purpose.
Moving too fast
The princess position is about gentle, attentive pleasure. Moving too fast or being too vigorous disrupts the pampering dynamic.
Forgetting the non-genital touch
The princess position includes caressing, massaging, and touching beyond just genital stimulation. Forgetting these elements reduces the pampering experience.
Not communicating
The receiving partner should communicate what feels good, and the penetrating partner should adjust accordingly. Without communication, the pampering misses the mark.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Princess, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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