Sixty-Nine

Both partners lie on their sides facing opposite directions on a comfortable surface, with each partner's head positioned near the other's hips.

Tip: The key is alignment — each mouth should naturally reach the other's genitals without straining.

The partner on top positions their body over the bottom partner, supporting their weight on their arms and knees. The core muscles (rated as involved) help maintain this position.

Tip: Hip flexors and arms support the top partner's weight — avoid putting pressure on the bottom partner.

Align mouths with genitals: the bottom partner's mouth reaches the top partner's clitoris/glans, while the top partner's mouth reaches the bottom partner's genitals.

Tip: This is an oral-only position (shallow penetration) — clitoral stimulation is rated 5/5 via direct oral contact.

Begin oral stimulation simultaneously. The neck and jaw muscles work to maintain position — take breaks if either area strains.

Tip: Communicate about pressure, speed, and rhythm before and during — what feels good for giving may differ from receiving.

Use hands to complement oral stimulation — one hand can hold the partner's hip or buttock for stability while the other stimulates.

Tip: Inner thighs and the perineum are also targeted pleasure zones accessible with hands during oral play.

Adjust positioning frequently for comfort. The neck and back can strain if held too long — shift positions or take breaks.

Tip: Moderate flexibility is required; pillows under the upper partner's hips can reduce strain.

Focus on giving pleasure while receiving — it takes practice to maintain both simultaneously. Start by taking turns if simultaneous stimulation is too distracting.

Tip: Many couples find that alternating focus (giving for a few minutes, then receiving) produces better results than true simultaneity.