Torch
A position that ignites passion like a burning flame.
About This Position
A position designed to ignite and sustain passion. The receiving partner holds their legs in a torch-like position while the penetrating partner moves with a slow, burning rhythm that builds heat and intensity.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Hip flexors
- Core
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Deep penetration, angle varies with positioning
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
The receiving partner lies on their back and raises their legs, bending the knees — the "torch" shape is created by the elevated, bent legs that the penetrating partner enters through.
The penetrating partner kneels and enters at the angle the raised legs create — the deep penetration targets the G-spot and deep spots with a burning intensity.
Begin with slow, deliberate strokes — Torch is about a slow burn, building heat gradually like a flame catching and growing.
Maintain eye contact while building the rhythm — the visual connection stokes the passionate flames alongside the physical sensation.
Gradually increase the pace and intensity — the slow build from gentle to passionate mirrors the flame growing from a spark to a blaze.
When both partners feel the heat building to its peak, let the passion take over — the slow burn pays off with an intense, fiery climax.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Communicate with your partner about comfort throughout.
- ! Can be tiring — take breaks as needed.
Modifications
- * Use pillows for support and comfort.
- * Adjust the angle or depth based on your partner's feedback.
Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Builds passion slowly
- + Creates a burning intensity
- + Deep penetration
- + Great for romantic, passionate sex
Cons
- - Requires patience for the slow build
- - Can be tiring to hold the leg position
- - May be too slow for some
Tips
- * Let the passion build slowly — don't rush
- * Use eye contact to stoke the flames
- * Vary the rhythm to control the heat
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Torch position:
Starting too fast
Torch is designed for a slow burn. Starting at high intensity skips the gradual heat-building that makes the eventual climax feel like a blazing fire.
Not maintaining the raised leg position
The "torch" shape — legs raised and bent — creates the deep angle that defines this position. Lowering the legs changes the angle and loses the deep-spot targeting.
Breaking eye contact during the build
The visual connection is part of what stokes the passion. Looking away during the slow build reduces the emotional heat that complements the physical sensation.
Expecting immediate intensity
Torch rewards patience. The slow, burning buildup takes time. Partners expecting instant fire will find the position too slow — they need to trust the process.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Torch, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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