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#458 Oral Medium

Anilingus

Oral stimulation of the anus for heightened pleasure.

Medically Reviewed by Dr. James Chen, Board-Certified OB/GYN
Anilingus sex position illustration - Oral stimulation of the anus for heightened pleasure.
Penetration: Shallow
Stimulation: Deep spot

About This Position

Anilingus, also known as rimming, involves oral stimulation of the anus and surrounding area. This practice can be pleasurable due to the high concentration of nerve endings in the anal region. Communication, hygiene, and consent are essential for this intimate act.

Best For

Anal stimulationNew sensationsIntimate exploration

Clitoral Stimulation

Not applicable — focused on anal stimulation.

N/A

G-Spot Stimulation

Not applicable — focused on anal stimulation.

N/A

Anatomy & Physiology

Muscle Groups Involved

  • Anal sphincter
  • Glutes

Angle of Penetration

Mouth-to-anus, direct access

Targeted Pleasure Zones

Anal openingPerineumExternal sphincter

Body Contact Points

Mouth to anusHands on buttocks

Step-by-Step Guide

1

Both partners should shower and clean the anal area thoroughly beforehand. This is essential for comfort and hygiene.

Tip: A quick shower together can be part of the foreplay.

2

The receiving partner positions themselves face-down or on their side with legs apart, exposing the anal area.

Tip: Using a pillow under the hips improves access and comfort.

3

Begin with external stimulation — kissing, licking, and tracing around the anal opening with the tongue.

Tip: Start gentle and build intensity based on your partner's response.

4

If both partners are comfortable, the giver can gently insert the tongue into the anal opening.

Tip: Go slowly and check in frequently — communication is essential.

5

The receiving partner communicates what feels good and when to stop or continue.

Tip: Verbal cues or gentle body movements help the giver understand preferences.

Safety & Precautions

Warnings

  • ! Practice good hygiene — shower and clean the area beforehand.
  • ! Use a dental dam for STI prevention.
  • ! Never go from anal to oral without cleaning or changing protection.

Modifications

  • * Use a dental dam (or cut-open condom) as a barrier.
  • * The receiving partner can use their hands to spread the cheeks for better access.
Flexibility: Low Joint Stress: None Pregnancy Safe

Safe during pregnancy, but ensure comfort.

Medical References & Sources

The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:

Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.

Pros

  • + Unique sensations from anal nerve endings
  • + Can be part of broader anal play
  • + Intimate and vulnerable experience

Cons

  • - Hygiene concerns for some
  • - May be outside some people's comfort zone
  • - Risk of bacterial transmission

Tips

  • * Ensure excellent hygiene beforehand — shower and clean the area
  • * Start with external licking before any insertion
  • * Use a dental dam for safer practice

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Anilingus position:

Skipping hygiene preparation

Poor hygiene can make this experience unpleasant and unsanitary. Always ensure thorough cleaning beforehand.

Going too fast or too deep

The anal area is sensitive and needs gentle, gradual stimulation. Rushing can cause discomfort or pain.

Not using protection

Anilingus can transmit STIs. Use a dental dam or condom over the tongue for safer practice.

Variations to Try

Once you've mastered the basic Anilingus, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:

1

Add a Pillow

Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.

2

Incorporate Manual Stimulation

Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.

3

Slow Down the Pace

Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.

4

Try Different Surfaces

Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.

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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell

Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality

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Reviewed by Dr. James Chen

Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience

Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team

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