Counterblow
A reverse missionary with a powerful, grinding rhythm.
About This Position
The receiving partner lies on their back while the penetrating partner faces their feet, creating a reverse angle. The penetrating partner grinds and rolls their hips for a unique stimulation pattern that differs from standard positions.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Hip flexors
- Core
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Deep penetration, angle varies with positioning
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
The receiving partner lies on their back with legs slightly apart — the reverse angle means the penetrating partner will face their partner's feet, not their face.
The penetrating partner positions themselves between the receiver's legs but facing the opposite direction (toward the feet), aligning pelvises for the unique reverse angle.
Enter slowly from this reverse angle — the deep penetration targets the G-spot and A-spot differently than missionary because the angle of entry is reversed along the anterior wall.
Start with slow grinding and rolling hip motions rather than thrusting — the grinding creates a rolling pressure across the G-spot and A-spot that feels fundamentally different from in-and-out movement.
The penetrating partner can use their hands on the receiver's thighs for leverage and to control the depth of each grind.
Vary between tight, circular hip rolls and wider grinding motions — the different patterns stimulate different spots along the anterior fornix wall.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Communicate with your partner about comfort throughout.
Modifications
- * Use pillows for support and comfort.
- * Adjust the angle or depth based on your partner's feedback.
Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Unique angle hits different spots
- + Great for G-spot and A-spot stimulation
- + Grinding motion feels different from thrusting
- + Partner on top controls the depth
Cons
- - No eye contact
- - Different from what many are used to
- - Can feel awkward at first
Tips
- * Start with slow grinding before picking up pace
- * Use hands on the receiving partner's thighs for leverage
- * Try circling motions instead of just in-and-out
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Counterblow position:
Thrusting instead of grinding
Counterblow's unique stimulation comes from the grinding, rolling motion — not standard thrusting. Thrusting in this reverse angle can feel awkward and misses the A-spot stimulation that makes this position special.
Expecting face-to-face contact
In the reverse position, there's no eye contact. Partners who expect eye contact may feel disconnected. Focus on verbal communication and physical touch to maintain connection.
Rushing the angle discovery
The reverse angle hits different spots than any other position. Taking time to explore which grinding patterns feel best is essential — rushing past this exploration misses the position's best sensations.
Misaligning the pelvis
If the penetrating partner is too far forward or back, the reverse angle doesn't connect properly with the G-spot/A-spot. The pelvises need to be closely aligned for the angle to work.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Counterblow, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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