Holder

The receiving partner stands with their back against a wall, and the penetrating partner steps close, wrapping both arms firmly around the receiving partner's lower back and glutes. The arm placement must be secure — this is a trust position.

The receiving partner jumps slightly while the penetrating partner lifts at the glutes. The receiving partner wraps both legs around the penetrating partner's waist and locks ankles. The receiving partner also wraps arms around the penetrating partner's neck for additional security.

The penetrating partner takes the full weight on their arms and hips. The wall provides stability if the receiving partner's back presses against it. Enter while the receiving partner is lifted — the height and angle depend on the lift height.

The receiving partner feels "held" — the entire weight is supported by the penetrating partner's arms. This creates the trusting, secure feeling that defines the position. The receiving partner can close their eyes and let go of all physical effort.

The penetrating partner controls movement entirely — small hip thrusts while maintaining the arm grip. The receiving partner is passive, letting their body be held and moved. This role division (active holder, passive held) is the position's power dynamic.

To dismount, the receiving partner lowers their legs first while the penetrating partner guides them down gently. Never release suddenly — the receiving partner's legs may be numb from the wrapped position and need time to recover.