Reverse Cowgirl
A fresh angle that brings a new dimension of pleasure.
About This Position
Similar to cowgirl but the receiving partner faces away from the penetrating partner. This provides a different angle of penetration, a stimulating view for the partner on the bottom, and allows the person on top to control the motion.
Best For
Clitoral Stimulation
Limited direct clitoral stimulation, but the receiving partner can reach around to stimulate themselves.
The receiving partner can use their hand for clitoral stimulation.
G-Spot Stimulation
Good G-spot stimulation from the reverse angle. The steeper angle targets the anterior wall differently than forward-facing positions.
The angle naturally curves toward the G-spot; adjusting speed and depth enhances the sensation.
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Quadriceps
- Glutes
- Core
- Hip flexors
Angle of Penetration
Variable — typically a steeper angle than forward-facing cowgirl, targeting the posterior wall
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
The penetrating partner lies on their back on a comfortable surface. A pillow under their hips improves the angle.
Tip: The steep angle of reverse cowgirl targets the posterior wall more than forward-facing positions.
The receiving partner straddles the penetrating partner's hips facing away, with knees on either side. Guide entry with your hand before lowering.
Tip: The back-to-chest orientation creates a completely different angle than standard cowgirl.
Start with gentle rocking motions to find the right angle. The steeper angle targets the posterior fornix and deep spots (rated 4/5 for G-spot).
Tip: Lean forward slightly to deepen the angle and increase internal pressure on the anterior wall.
Lean forward to increase depth — this tilts the pelvis and creates a more direct angle toward the G-spot and deep spots.
Tip: The quadriceps and glutes power the motion — engage your core to maintain balance without face-to-face contact.
The penetrating partner holds the receiving partner's hips for stability and can assist with rhythm. The pelvis-to-pelvis contact point creates the primary stimulation.
Tip: No eye contact is possible, so verbal communication becomes especially important.
Experiment with grinding, bouncing, or circular motions. Each creates different internal stimulation patterns along the vaginal walls.
Tip: Circular motions hit the side walls; grinding targets the anterior wall; bouncing provides deep spot stimulation.
The receiving partner can reach around to stimulate their own clitoris (rated 2/5 without manual help) or the penetrating partner can assist.
Tip: This position is pregnancy-safe as the receiving partner controls depth and can take breaks easily.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! No face-to-face contact, so verbal communication is especially important.
- ! Be careful not to lean too far forward, which can strain the back.
Modifications
- * Place a pillow under the penetrating partner's hips for a better angle.
- * The receiving partner can rest their hands on the partner's legs for support.
Safe during pregnancy; the receiving partner controls depth and can take breaks easily.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Unique angle of penetration
- + Great view for the partner on bottom
- + Person on top still has control
Cons
- - No eye contact
- - Difficult to kiss
Tips
- * Lean forward to increase depth
- * Place hands on partner's legs for stability
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Reverse Cowgirl position:
Leaning too far forward
Leaning too far forward strains the lower back and can make the angle too steep, potentially hitting the cervix painfully. Lean only slightly and maintain core engagement for balance.
No verbal communication
Without face-to-face contact, you cannot read facial expressions. Couples who stay silent miss important feedback. Verbally communicate about depth, angle, and pleasure throughout.
Bouncing instead of grinding
Bouncing is tiring and provides inconsistent stimulation. Grinding the pelvis in circular or rocking motions creates sustained contact with the anterior wall and is less exhausting.
Ignoring clitoral stimulation
This position rates only 2/5 for clitoral stimulation without assistance. The receiving partner should use their hand or the penetrating partner should reach around to compensate.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Reverse Cowgirl, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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