Julia
A relaxed side-lying position with gentle penetration.
About This Position
Named after a classic literary character, Julia is a gentle side-lying position where both partners face the same direction. The penetrating partner enters from behind while both lie comfortably, perfect for slow mornings.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Hip flexors
- Core
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Angled side entry, medium depth along the side wall
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction — the receiving partner in front, the penetrating partner behind them, both comfortably aligned.
The receiving partner bends their top leg slightly forward to open the side-entry angle along the anterior vaginal wall, where this position's G-spot stimulation is focused.
The penetrating partner enters from the side/behind at the shallow side-angle — this position's penetration is intentionally shallow, so go slow to find the right depth.
Both partners rock together in a slow, synchronized side-to-side motion — movement comes from the hips and pelvis, not from thrusting forward and backward.
The penetrating partner wraps one arm around the receiver's chest or waist while the free hand can caress the neck, ear, or clitoris for added sensation.
To change the angle, the receiving partner can shift their top leg further forward (more shallow) or further back (slightly deeper) while maintaining the side-lying alignment.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Communicate with your partner about comfort throughout.
Modifications
- * Use pillows for support and comfort.
- * Adjust the angle or depth based on your partner's feedback.
Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Extremely comfortable and low-effort
- + Great for lazy mornings
- + Allows whispering and kissing the neck
- + Gentle on the body
Cons
- - Shallow penetration
- - Limited movement
- - May not lead to orgasm easily
Tips
- * Use a soft pillow under the head
- * The receiving partner can bend the top leg back for deeper access
- * Focus on the emotional connection
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Julia position:
Trying to thrust instead of rocking
Julia is a side-lying position with limited range of motion. Trying to thrust forward and backward creates awkward angles. The motion should be a gentle rocking of the pelvis, not piston-like thrusting.
Aligning bodies too far apart
If the partners' pelvises aren't close together, the shallow penetration angle won't connect properly. The receiving partner's back should be pressed against the penetrating partner's chest.
Expecting deep penetration
Julia is designed for shallow, G-spot-focused stimulation. Pushing for deeper penetration strains the position's mechanics and can be uncomfortable. Enjoy the shallow angle for what it is.
Neglecting the emotional intimacy
Julia is ideal for whispering, kissing the neck, and slow connection. If partners focus only on the physical mechanics, they miss the position's greatest strength — the tenderness and closeness.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Julia, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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