Oath
A solemn, deeply connected pose that requires trust and balance.
About This Position
The receiving partner lies on their back with legs raised straight up, while the penetrating partner kneels and holds their ankles. This creates a deep angle and requires flexibility. The name suggests the solemn commitment needed to execute it well.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Hip flexors
- Core
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Deep penetration, angle varies with positioning
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
Both partners stretch beforehand — the receiving partner needs flexible hamstrings and hip flexors to raise legs straight up. Warm up with gentle stretching for 5 minutes.
The receiving partner lies on their back and raises both legs straight up toward the ceiling, keeping them together. The penetrating partner kneels at the feet end.
The penetrating partner gently takes hold of the receiving partner's ankles, using them as leverage and control points.
Enter slowly at a steep upward angle — the raised legs create a deep angle that targets the deep spot and anterior wall simultaneously.
The penetrating partner controls the depth by adjusting how far they pull the ankles toward them, while the receiving partner communicates about comfort.
Keep sessions brief — this is a Hard position that requires significant flexibility from the receiving partner and strength from the penetrating partner. Exit slowly to avoid hamstring strain.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Requires significant strength and balance from one or both partners.
- ! Keep sessions brief to avoid fatigue.
Modifications
- * Start with simpler variations and progress gradually.
- * Use a soft surface for safety.
Not recommended during pregnancy — the position may be uncomfortable or unsafe.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Extremely deep penetration
- + Unique angle of entry
- + Builds trust between partners
- + Intense and memorable experience
Cons
- - Requires significant flexibility
- - Can be uncomfortable if not aligned
- - Difficult to sustain for long
Tips
- * Warm up with stretching beforehand
- * Communicate constantly about depth and comfort
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Oath position:
Forcing the legs too far back
Pulling the ankles toward the penetrating partner's head can overstretch the hamstrings and strain the lower back. Let the receiving partner's flexibility set the limit.
Entering before alignment is correct
The deep angle requires precise pelvic alignment. Entering without proper alignment can cause discomfort or pain against the cervix.
Holding the position too long
The receiving partner's legs will fatigue quickly in the raised position. Keep the position brief and have a comfortable exit plan ready.
Skipping the warm-up stretch
This position demands high flexibility. Attempting it without warming up the hamstrings and hip flexors increases the risk of muscle strain.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Oath, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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