Ribbon (Reverse Spoon)
A reverse spooning position with a ribbon-like connection.
About This Position
A reverse variation of spooning where both partners face the same direction but the penetrating partner is in front. Like a ribbon curling around, the bodies create a beautiful, flowing connection that's both comfortable and intimate.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Hip flexors
- Core
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Straight-on, medium depth with adjustable angle
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction, but with the penetrating partner in front and the receiver behind — the reverse of traditional spooning.
The receiving partner reaches around to hold the penetrating partner from behind — the reversed embrace creates the ribbon-like wrapping connection.
The receiving partner enters from behind at the shallow-to-medium angle the reverse spoon creates — the angle targets the anterior wall differently than regular spooning.
Rock together in a synchronized side-to-side motion — both partners push and pull in unison, creating the flowing, ribbon-like rhythm.
The receiving partner can adjust the angle by shifting their hips forward (deeper) or backward (shallower) — the reverse position gives the receiver more angle control.
Use the front partner's free hand to stimulate the receiver — the reverse position leaves the penetrating partner's front hand available for reaching back to touch.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Communicate with your partner about comfort throughout.
Modifications
- * Use pillows for support and comfort.
- * Adjust the angle or depth based on your partner's feedback.
Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Comfortable and easy to maintain
- + Reverse angle feels different from regular spooning
- + Great for cuddling and closeness
- + Low effort for both partners
Cons
- - Limited movement
- - No face-to-face contact
- - Penetration depth is moderate
Tips
- * The receiver can push back for more depth
- * Use hands to caress the partner in front
- * Focus on the ribbon-like, flowing connection
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Ribbon (Reverse Spoon) position:
Trying to thrust from the side
Ribbon is a side-lying position with limited range of motion. Thrusting creates awkward angles and hip strain. The motion should be a synchronized rocking of the combined pelvises.
Breaking the reverse embrace
The ribbon-like connection depends on the receiving partner holding the front partner from behind. Letting go of the embrace breaks the reverse-spoon dynamic.
Not adjusting for the reverse angle
The reverse spoon angle feels different from regular spooning. Partners who expect the same sensation as forward spooning may be surprised by the different internal contact points.
Neglecting the comfort aspect
Ribbon is designed for comfortable, flowing intimacy. Adding pillows, using a soft surface, and keeping the movement gentle maintains the position's cozy quality.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Ribbon (Reverse Spoon), these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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