Is the Skewer position safe during pregnancy?

The Skewer position may not be ideal during pregnancy due to significant. Consult your healthcare provider for safe alternatives.

What difficulty level is the Skewer position?

The Skewer is a hard difficulty position. It requires high flexibility and causes significant joint stress.

#218 Spicy Hard

Skewer

A deep, intense position that hits all the right spots.

Medically Reviewed by Dr. James Chen, Board-Certified OB/GYN

Penetration: Deep

Stimulation: Deep spot & A-spot

About This Position

The receiving partner lifts their hips high while the penetrating partner kneels, creating a steep downward angle for very deep penetration. The name comes from the skewering sensation of the deep entry angle.

Best For

Deep penetrationA-spot stimulationIntensity

Anatomy & Physiology

Muscle Groups Involved

Glutes
Hip flexors
Core
Inner thighs

Angle of Penetration

Deep penetration, angle varies with positioning

Targeted Pleasure Zones

Deep spotAnterior fornix (A-spot)Anterior wallAnterior vaginal wall

Body Contact Points

Chest to chestPelvis to pelvisHands on hips or chestFace to face

Step-by-Step Guide

Place a firm pillow or folded blanket on the bed — the receiving partner will lie on it with their hips elevated, creating the steep downward angle that defines this position.

The receiving partner lies on their back and scoots their hips to the edge of the pillow, letting their legs hang or rest on the penetrating partner's shoulders for the deep-spot/A-spot targeting angle.

The penetrating partner kneels between the receiver's legs, with the elevated hips creating a steep downward entry angle — this is what makes penetration extremely deep.

Enter very slowly — the steep angle means penetration is deeper than most positions. Let the receiving partner's body adjust to the intensity before increasing depth.

The receiving partner can guide the angle by placing their hands on the penetrating partner's hips or by adjusting the pillow height under their own hips.

Keep movements controlled and shallow at first — the deep-spot and A-spot are sensitive areas that respond better to targeted pressure than fast, deep thrusting.

Safety & Precautions

Warnings

! Requires significant strength and balance from one or both partners.
! Keep sessions brief to avoid fatigue.

Modifications

* Start with simpler variations and progress gradually.
* Use a soft surface for safety.

Flexibility: High Joint Stress: Significant

Not recommended during pregnancy — the position may be uncomfortable or unsafe.

Medical References & Sources

The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:

Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.

Pros

+ Extremely deep penetration
+ Targets the A-spot effectively
+ Intense sensations for both partners
+ Unique angle from most positions

Cons

- Can be too intense for some
- Requires hip flexibility
- Needs pillows for hip support

Tips

* Use a firm pillow under the hips
* Start gently and build intensity
* The receiving partner can guide the angle with their hands

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Skewer position:

Using a pillow that's too soft

Skewer needs a firm elevation to maintain the steep angle. A soft pillow collapses under hip weight, flattening the angle and losing the deep-spot targeting. Use a firm wedge or tightly folded blanket.

Entering at full depth immediately

The steep angle makes this position deeper than almost any other. Entering fully on the first thrust can cause pain or discomfort. Start shallow and gradually increase depth as the receiver adjusts.

Not supporting the receiver's hips

Without hip support, the receiving partner has to actively hold their hips elevated, which fatigues the core and takes focus away from pleasure. The pillow does this work.

Thrusting hard at the deepest point

The deep-spot/A-spot area is sensitive to intense pressure. Hard thrusting at maximum depth can be overwhelming or painful. Gentle, targeted pressure at this angle is more effective.