Special Fellatio
An elevated oral position for exceptional pleasure.
About This Position
A special variation of oral pleasure where the receiving partner is positioned to receive maximum stimulation. The giving partner focuses on technique and attention to bring their partner to a special kind of climax.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Hip flexors
- Core
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Shallow, focused on external stimulation
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
The receiving partner lies back with a pillow under their hips, legs relaxed apart — the elevated hips and open position are optimized for oral access.
The giving partner positions their mouth directly at the genital area, with full range of motion to explore the clitoris, inner labia, and vaginal opening.
Begin with broad tongue strokes across the entire vulva — Special Fellatio uses varied technique rather than just one motion to build arousal.
Alternate between techniques: broad flat licks, focused tongue flicks on the clitoris, gentle suction, and circling motions — variety prevents desensitization.
Use one hand to gently part the labia or hold the clitoral hood for more direct access, while the other hand can stimulate the vaginal opening internally.
Pay attention to the receiver's responses — subtle changes in breathing and hip movement tell you which technique to maintain and which to adjust.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Communicate with your partner about comfort throughout.
- ! Can be tiring — take breaks as needed.
Modifications
- * Use pillows for support and comfort.
- * Adjust the angle or depth based on your partner's feedback.
Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Focused, attentive oral pleasure
- + Can be incredibly intense
- + Shows skill and devotion
- + Great for building to climax
Cons
- - Can be tiring for the giver
- - Receiver may be too sensitive
- - Not intercourse
Tips
- * Pay attention to what the receiver responds to
- * Vary techniques — suction, licking, tongue movements
- * Use hands to complement the mouth
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Special Fellatio position:
Using only one technique throughout
Special Fellatio's skill comes from variety. The same tongue pattern continuously causes desensitization. Alternate between broad and focused, fast and slow.
Applying too much direct pressure too early
The clitoris is extremely sensitive. Starting with firm, direct pressure can be overwhelming. Build arousal first with indirect stimulation.
Neglecting the hands
Special Fellatio uses both mouth AND hands. Fingers can stimulate internally while the mouth focuses on the clitoris. Hands-free oral is only half the technique.
Not taking breaks for the jaw
Extended oral is tiring. Taking brief breaks to use fingers doesn't break the experience — it sustains the session longer than pushing through jaw pain.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Special Fellatio, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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