Spider

Both partners lie facing each other on a comfortable surface, chest to chest. The face-to-face orientation creates maximum emotional intimacy.

Tip: This position is rated Medium difficulty — the leg configuration takes practice to figure out.

Intertwine your legs in a complex, spider-like configuration. The inner thighs and hip flexors create the tangled leg lock that defines this position.

Tip: Take your time getting the legs right — the spider configuration is unique and takes experimentation.

The penetrating partner enters while legs are tangled together. The very shallow penetration means the focus is on clitoral and external stimulation.

Tip: Clitoral stimulation is rated 4/5 — the grinding motion and leg pressure against the pubic area create friction.

Focus on grinding rather than thrusting. The intertwined legs create resistance that makes thrusting difficult — the grinding motion works with the leg tangle.

Tip: The clitoris, inner labia, vulva, and anterior wall (shallow) are all targeted by the grinding.

Maintain eye contact and close body contact throughout. The chest-to-chest, legs-tangled configuration creates full-body intimacy.

Tip: Use hands to caress faces, backs, and hips — the hands-on-face-or-back body contact points add stimulation.

Use hands to caress each other's faces and bodies. The proximity makes this natural and enhances the emotional connection.

Tip: The core and glutes maintain the side-lying position — shift if hip discomfort develops.

Be patient — this position builds intensity slowly through sustained grinding. The gradual buildup can lead to intense orgasms from the prolonged clitoral pressure.

Tip: Experiment with different leg tangles — each configuration creates different pressure and friction patterns.