Valedictorian
Graduate to new levels of pleasure with this elevated position.
About This Position
The receiving partner lies on their back at the edge of the bed while the penetrating partner stands. The receiving partner raises their legs high, creating an upward angle. Named after the top graduate, this position reaches new heights of stimulation.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Quadriceps
- Glutes
- Core
Angle of Penetration
Variable — the angle depends on the height difference and leg position
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
The receiving partner lies on their back at the edge of a bed, with their hips at the bed's edge and their back slightly supported by a pillow.
The receiving partner raises both legs high toward the ceiling, creating a V-shape with their body — like a valedictorian raising their arms in graduation triumph.
The penetrating partner stands at the edge of the bed, holding the receiving partner's ankles or calves for support and control.
Enter at a steep angle — the raised legs create a deep angle that reaches the deep spot and anterior fornix, like graduating to new levels of stimulation.
The penetrating partner controls the depth by adjusting the leg angle — pulling legs toward them increases depth, extending them back reduces it.
The receiving partner can hold their own legs up if the penetrating partner needs hands free for caressing or holding hips. Experiment with what works for your bodies.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Requires strength and balance from the standing partner.
- ! Can be tiring quickly — keep sessions brief.
Modifications
- * Use a wall for additional support.
- * The receiving partner should help by gripping tightly.
Not recommended during pregnancy — the position may be uncomfortable or unsafe.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Excellent angle for deep penetration
- + Standing partner has full control
- + Great for G-spot stimulation
- + Easy to maintain
Cons
- - Requires a bed at the right height
- - Can be uncomfortable for the back
- - Height difference matters
Tips
- * Adjust with pillows if needed
- * The receiving partner can hold their legs up for support
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Valedictorian position:
Raising legs without hip support
The hips should be at the bed's edge, not far back on the mattress. Without proper edge positioning, the angle becomes too shallow to achieve the deep stimulation.
Using a bed that's too high
If the bed is too high relative to the standing partner's height, the angle becomes uncomfortable. Adjust with a lower surface or have the standing partner stand on a step.
Not using the receiving partner's hands for support
The receiving partner can hold their own legs, reducing the arm strain on the penetrating partner. This also allows the receiving partner to control the leg angle.
Ignoring the steep angle sensation
The steep angle is intense. The penetrating partner should start shallow and communicate before increasing depth — the deep spot can be overwhelming if hit too hard too fast.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Valedictorian, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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