Apex
Reaching the peak with a high, elevated position.
About This Position
The receiving partner is elevated — on a high surface, pillows, or the edge of a tall bed — while the penetrating partner stands or kneels below. The height difference creates a unique angle and a sense of reaching the apex of pleasure.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Hip flexors
- Core
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Deep penetration, angle varies with positioning
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
Position a sturdy surface at the right height — a high bed, counter, or sturdy table where the receiving partner can sit or lie with their pelvis at the edge.
The receiving partner positions themselves on the elevated surface, sitting or lying at the edge with legs accessible — the height creates the downward angle for the penetrating partner below.
The penetrating partner stands or kneels at the edge, entering at the angle created by the height difference — the elevation is what creates the unique deep-penetration angle.
The height difference creates a natural deep-spot angle — the penetrating partner can control depth from below while the elevated partner provides a stable, accessible target.
The receiving partner can shift their position on the surface — scooting forward (deeper) or backward (shallower) to fine-tune the angle and depth.
Ensure the surface is stable and won't slide — the Apex creates forces in multiple directions, and an unstable surface is dangerous.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Communicate with your partner about comfort throughout.
Modifications
- * Use pillows for support and comfort.
- * Adjust the angle or depth based on your partner's feedback.
Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Creates a unique penetration angle
- + Height difference adds novelty
- + Great for deep penetration
- + Feels adventurous and different
Cons
- - Requires furniture at the right height
- - Can be awkward to set up
- - Height mismatch can complicate things
Tips
- * Use a sturdy table or high bed
- * Pillows can help adjust the height
- * Make sure the surface is stable and safe
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Apex position:
Using an unstable surface
The Apex requires a sturdy, immovable surface. A lightweight table, a rolling chair, or a wobbly desk can collapse under the forces involved. Test stability before starting.
Mismatching the height
If the surface is too high or too low relative to the standing partner, the angle doesn't connect properly. Adjust the height until the penetration angle feels natural.
Not securing the receiver on the surface
The receiving partner can slide off the edge during movement. They should sit firmly on the surface with hands gripping the edges for stability.
Ignoring the unique angle
The height difference creates a fundamentally different angle from bed-based positions. Explore this new angle rather than reverting to familiar movement patterns.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Apex, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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