Source
A grounded, centering position that feels deeply connected.
About This Position
Both partners sit together in a centered, grounded position, feeling deeply connected to each other and to the moment. The penetrating partner sits cross-legged while the receiving partner sits on their lap, wrapped in an embrace.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Core
- Hip flexors
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Shallow, focused on external stimulation
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
The penetrating partner sits cross-legged on a comfortable surface — this grounded, seated position creates the base for the centered, meditative connection.
The receiving partner sits on the penetrating partner's lap, facing them, wrapping legs around their waist — this face-to-face, wrapped position maximizes body contact.
Lower yourself onto your partner slowly, guiding entry with your hand — the shallow penetration in Source is by design, not a limitation.
Sync your breathing together — inhale and exhale in unison. The centered, meditative quality comes from the rhythmic breath connection, not from physical movement.
Rock gently together rather than thrusting — the subtle rocking motion creates gentle G-spot stimulation while maintaining the grounded, connected feeling.
Hold each other closely, maintaining eye contact and forehead-to-forehead contact — the energy between you is the focus, not physical intensity.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Communicate with your partner about comfort throughout.
Modifications
- * Use pillows for support and comfort.
- * Adjust the angle or depth based on your partner's feedback.
Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Deeply centering and calming
- + Maximum body contact
- + Great for eye contact and breathing together
- + Feels meditative and connected
Cons
- - Very shallow penetration
- - Limited movement
- - Can feel too slow for those wanting intensity
Tips
- * Sync your breathing together
- * Rock gently rather than thrusting
- * Focus on the energy between you
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Source position:
Thrusting instead of rocking
Source is a meditative, centered position. Standard thrusting disrupts the grounded, connected energy. The movement should be a subtle rock of the combined pelvises, not piston-like motion.
Focusing on penetration depth
Source's penetration is intentionally shallow. The pleasure comes from the emotional connection, the G-spot's gentle stimulation, and the meditative energy — not from depth.
Breaking the eye contact
The face-to-face, centered position is about deep connection. Closing eyes or looking away breaks the energetic link that makes this position transcendent.
Rushing through the experience
Source is about being present and grounded. Moving quickly through the experience contradicts its meditative purpose. Slow down and savor the connection.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Source, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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