Backwards Cowgirl
A reverse angle of the classic cowgirl for new sensations.
About This Position
Similar to reverse cowgirl but the receiving partner sits more upright, creating a different angle. This variation allows for unique stimulation and gives the person on top control while facing away. Great for discovering new erogenous zones.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Core
- Hip flexors
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Deep penetration, angle varies with positioning
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
The penetrating partner sits on a sturdy surface like the edge of a bed, with their feet flat on the floor for stability.
The receiving partner turns away from the penetrating partner and sits on their lap, lowering themselves onto the penis while facing the same direction.
The receiving partner places their hands on the penetrating partner's thighs for balance and control — this is their position to lead.
Rock back and forth in a grinding motion rather than up and down — the reverse angle creates unique G-spot stimulation along the anterior wall.
The receiving partner controls pace, depth, and angle by shifting their weight forward (deeper) or backward (shallower), experimenting to find the most pleasurable angle.
The penetrating partner can place hands on the receiving partner's hips to help guide the rhythm, but the person on top determines the experience.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Communicate with your partner about comfort throughout.
Modifications
- * Use pillows for support and comfort.
- * Adjust the angle or depth based on your partner's feedback.
Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Unique angle of penetration
- + Person on top has full control
- + Great G-spot stimulation
- + Exciting visual for partner below
Cons
- - No face-to-face contact
- - Can be awkward initially
- - Requires balance
Tips
- * Rock back and forth instead of up and down
- * Place hands on partner's thighs for stability
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Backwards Cowgirl position:
Bouncing instead of grinding
The reverse angle is optimized for a grinding, rocking motion. Bouncing up and down misses the G-spot stimulation zone and can cause the penetrating partner to slip out.
Leaning too far forward
Leaning excessively forward shifts the angle away from the G-spot and can strain the receiving partner's lower back. Keep the torso relatively upright.
Not communicating about the different angle
The reverse angle feels completely different from facing-forward positions. Partners should explicitly discuss what they feel and adjust accordingly.
Neglecting balance support
Without hands on the thighs for support, the receiving partner can lose balance and the position becomes unstable, interrupting the flow.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Backwards Cowgirl, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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