Inventive 69
A creative twist on the classic 69 position.
About This Position
Instead of the traditional horizontal 69, this position has both partners lying on their sides facing opposite directions, allowing for simultaneous oral stimulation. The side-lying position is more comfortable and sustainable than the classic version.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Hip flexors
- Core
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Shallow, focused on external stimulation
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
Both partners lie on their sides facing opposite directions — the receiving partner's head is at the penetrating partner's hips, and vice versa. This side-lying 69 is more comfortable than the traditional vertical version.
Adjust positioning so both partners can comfortably reach each other's genitals with their mouths. The side-lying position means neither partner bears weight on their arms or neck.
Begin with gentle, teasing oral stimulation — both partners giving simultaneously. The side-lying position allows for relaxed, unhurried oral pleasure without the physical strain of the traditional 69.
Communicate about what feels good — since both partners are giving and receiving simultaneously, verbal cues help each partner adjust their technique based on their partner's response.
Take turns focusing on giving — one partner concentrates on their technique while the other receives, then switch. This prevents the distraction of trying to give and receive at the same time.
The side-lying position allows for extended sessions without arm or neck fatigue. Use the comfort to take your time and explore different techniques.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Communicate with your partner about comfort throughout.
Modifications
- * Use pillows for support and comfort.
- * Adjust the angle or depth based on your partner's feedback.
Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + More comfortable than traditional 69
- + Simultaneous pleasure for both
- + Side-lying is relaxing
Cons
- - Can be difficult to coordinate
- - May be distracting to focus on giving and receiving
Tips
- * Communicate about what feels good
- * Take turns focusing on giving pleasure
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Inventive 69 position:
Not adjusting for comfort
The side-lying 69 requires both partners to be in a comfortable position where they can reach each other's genitals without straining. If either partner is stretching, craning their neck, or supporting weight on their arms, adjust the positioning.
Being too focused on giving to enjoy receiving
Many people get so concentrated on performing well that they forget to enjoy the pleasure they're receiving. Balance giving and receiving — it's supposed to be mutual pleasure, not a performance.
Not communicating during the act
Since both partners are simultaneously giving and receiving, verbal cues are essential for adjusting technique. "That feels good," "softer," or "right there" helps each partner improve their giving.
Rushing instead of savoring
The side-lying 69 is comfortable enough for extended sessions. Rushing to climax defeats the purpose of the simultaneous pleasure. Take time and enjoy the reciprocal experience.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Inventive 69, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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