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#94 Intimate Easy

Nice Talk

A position centered on verbal intimacy and dirty talk.

Medically Reviewed by Dr. James Chen, Board-Certified OB/GYN
Nice Talk sex position illustration - A position centered on verbal intimacy and dirty talk.
Penetration: Shallow
Stimulation: Clitoral

About This Position

Both partners lie face to face while engaging in verbal intimacy — dirty talk, compliments, and sweet words. This position prioritizes verbal connection and emotional intimacy during sex.

Best For

Verbal intimacyDirty talkEmotional connection

Step-by-Step Guide

1

Both partners lie face to face while engaging in verbal intimacy — dirty talk, compliments, and sweet words. The position prioritizes verbal connection.

Tip: Maintain eye contact while speaking — the verbal and visual connection are equally important.

2

The shallow penetration keeps the focus on the verbal intimacy. The physical pleasure is enhanced by the words.

Tip: Whisper dirty talk and compliments — the verbal stimulation adds another layer of pleasure.

3

The verbal connection builds emotional intimacy alongside physical pleasure. The words are as important as the movements.

Tip: The clitoral stimulation is rated 5/5 — the gentle, face-to-face angle optimizes clitoral contact.

4

Focus on the verbal expression. The nice-talk position is about saying what feels good and what you desire.

Tip: This is an Easy difficulty position — the verbal focus makes it very accessible.

5

Use words to express pleasure, desire, and love. The verbal intimacy enhances the physical connection.

Tip: The face-to-face, chest-to-chest contact maintains physical intimacy throughout.

6

The nice-talk position is about emotional and verbal connection during sex. The words create arousal as much as the movements.

Tip: The shallow penetration depth keeps the focus on connection rather than intensity.

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The verbal intimacy builds emotional closeness that enhances the physical pleasure. The words create a deeper, more meaningful experience.

Tip: The inner thighs and core lightly engage during the gentle movement.

Medical References & Sources

The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:

Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.

Pros

  • + Enhances verbal connection
  • + Builds emotional intimacy
  • + Can increase arousal through words

Cons

  • - Very shallow penetration
  • - Requires comfort with verbal expression

Tips

  • * Whisper dirty talk and compliments to your partner
  • * Maintain eye contact while speaking

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Nice Talk position:

Being too quiet

The nice-talk position is about verbal intimacy. If both partners are silent, the position loses its purpose. Speak, whisper, and express yourself.

Not maintaining eye contact

The eye contact during verbal intimacy enhances the connection. Looking away breaks the visual-verbal link.

Forgetting the physical pleasure

The nice-talk position is about verbal AND physical connection. Don't forget to maintain gentle physical pleasure alongside the words.

Being too self-conscious about talking

Many people feel awkward talking during sex. The nice-talk position is about practice — start with compliments and build from there.

Variations to Try

Once you've mastered the basic Nice Talk, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:

1

Add a Pillow

Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.

2

Incorporate Manual Stimulation

Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.

3

Slow Down the Pace

Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.

4

Try Different Surfaces

Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.

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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell

Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality

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Reviewed by Dr. James Chen

Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience

Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team

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