Octopus
A multi-limbed position with tentacles everywhere.
About This Position
The receiving partner wraps their legs and arms around the penetrating partner in multiple configurations, like an octopus with its tentacles. This creates multiple points of contact and stimulation.
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Step-by-Step Guide
The receiving partner wraps their legs and arms around the penetrating partner in multiple configurations. Each limb creates a point of contact and stimulation.
Tip: Experiment with different limb positions — each creates a unique sensation.
The penetrating partner enters from above while being wrapped by the receiving partner. The clinging creates maximum body contact.
Tip: The G-spot is rated 3/5 — the medium penetration depth from the wrapped position creates moderate internal stimulation.
Use all eight limbs for maximum contact — legs around waist, arms around neck, back, or hips. The more wrapped, the more intimate.
Tip: The full body contact creates a feeling of being completely intertwined.
Rock together rather than thrusting. The wrapped position restricts large movements — small, controlled rocking creates the stimulation.
Tip: This is a Hard difficulty position — the coordination and strength required are significant.
Communicate about which configurations feel best. The octopus position offers many possible limb arrangements.
Tip: The penetrating partner's core and legs support the combined weight.
Maintain the wrapped position throughout. The feeling of being completely intertwined creates deep intimacy.
Tip: Keep sessions brief — the clinging position is tiring for both partners.
The octopus position is about creativity and closeness. Experiment with different wrapping patterns for varied sensations.
Tip: The penetrating partner can use their free hands to caress the receiving partner's body.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Multiple points of contact and stimulation
- + Very intimate and close
- + Creative and varied
Cons
- - Can be confusing to get into
- - Requires coordination
Tips
- * Experiment with different limb positions
- * Use all eight limbs for maximum contact
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Octopus position:
Getting confused by the limb positions
The octopus position involves many possible limb configurations. Don't get frustrated — experiment with different wrapping patterns until you find what works.
Not wrapping tightly enough
If the receiving partner doesn't wrap tightly, they slide down and the position fails. Grip firmly with both legs and arms for the full octopus effect.
Trying to thrust in the wrapped position
The clinging wrap restricts movement. Thrusting is mechanically difficult and can break the wrap. Rock gently instead.
Expecting deep penetration
The octopus position is rated medium penetration depth. The wrapping creates tightness and closeness, not depth. Focus on the intimacy, not the depth.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Octopus, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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