Lap Dance

The penetrating partner sits on a sturdy chair (without armrests). The seated position provides stability for the lap-dance configuration.

Tip: Use a sturdy chair that can support both partners — test it before starting.

The receiving partner sits on their lap facing them, grinding in lap-dance-like motions. The circular grinding creates clitoral stimulation.

Tip: Clitoral stimulation is rated 5/5 — the grinding against the pubic bone is the core mechanism.

Grind in circles instead of up-and-down. The circular motion creates sustained clitoral contact and varied internal stimulation.

Tip: The G-spot is rated 3/5 — the grinding motion stimulates the anterior wall.

Use hands to caress each other's bodies. The face-to-face seated position makes touching natural and intimate.

Tip: The inner thighs and core power the grinding motion.

The receiving partner controls the pace and angle of the grinding. Use this control to optimize clitoral stimulation.

Tip: The medium penetration depth is ideal for the grinding, clitoral-focused experience.

Maintain eye contact and verbal connection. The lap-dance position is intimate and playful.

Tip: This is an Easy difficulty position — the seated position is comfortable and accessible.

Build to climax through sustained clitoral grinding. The lap-dance position is designed for clitoral orgasms during penetration.

Tip: The penetrating partner can assist by thrusting upward in coordination with the grinding.