Praying Mantis

The receiving partner lies on their back on a comfortable surface. The penetrating partner holds the receiving partner's arms in a mantis-like grasp above their head.

Tip: Establish a safe word first — this is a restraint position that creates vulnerability.

The penetrating partner positions themselves between the receiving partner's legs while maintaining the arm hold. The full body is open and exposed.

Tip: The hold should be firm but gentle — never restrict circulation or cause pain.

Enter from above while maintaining the gentle arm restraint. The deep spot, G-spot, and cervix are all targeted from the straight-on angle.

Tip: The hands restrained above the head body contact point creates the submission dynamic.

Keep the arm hold comfortable throughout. The mantis-like grasp is psychological as much as physical — the feeling of being captured increases arousal.

Tip: Check that the receiving partner can move their fingers to ensure circulation is maintained.

The penetrating partner controls the depth and pace. The receiving partner focuses on the vulnerability and surrender of the restrained position.

Tip: The penetrating partner's free hand can stimulate the clitoris (rated 3/5) during penetration.

Communicate constantly about comfort levels. The arm restraint can become uncomfortable if held too long or too tightly.

Tip: Release the hold periodically to let blood flow return to the arms.

Exit the position slowly — release the arms gently and allow the receiving partner to move their shoulders and restore circulation.

Tip: This is a Hard difficulty position — trust and communication are essential.