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#99 Intimate Medium

Reverse Connection

A reversed face-to-face position for deep connection.

Medically Reviewed by Dr. James Chen, Board-Certified OB/GYN
Reverse Connection sex position illustration - A reversed face-to-face position for deep connection.
Penetration: Medium
Stimulation: G-spot

About This Position

Both partners lie face to face but in a reversed configuration, creating a unique connection angle. This position emphasizes emotional connection while providing a different physical sensation.

Best For

Emotional connectionUnique angleFace to face

Step-by-Step Guide

1

Both partners lie face to face but in a reversed configuration — the penetrating partner's head is at the receiving partner's feet. The reversed angle creates a unique connection.

Tip: The reversed position requires careful alignment — take your time getting into position.

2

The reversed face-to-face angle creates a different penetration trajectory. The internal sensations are unique compared to standard face-to-face positions.

Tip: The G-spot stimulation is rated 4/5 — the reversed angle targets the anterior wall.

3

Maintain eye contact despite the reversed configuration. The emotional intimacy is enhanced by the unusual, intimate arrangement.

Tip: The clitoral stimulation is rated 3/5 — the angle provides moderate contact.

4

Communicate about the unique sensations. The reversed angle creates internal stimulation that neither partner has experienced before.

Tip: This is a Medium difficulty position — the reversed alignment requires some practice.

5

Use hands to caress and stimulate while maintaining the reversed face-to-face connection. The full body contact is maintained throughout.

Tip: The deep spot stimulation is rated 3/5 — the reversed angle reaches moderate depth.

6

The reverse connection position is about emotional intimacy enhanced by a unique physical angle.

Tip: The inner thighs and core maintain the reversed alignment.

7

The reversed configuration creates a sense of novelty and discovery. Explore the unique sensations together.

Tip: Keep movements gentle — the unusual angle can be sensitive.

Medical References & Sources

The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:

Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.

Pros

  • + Maintains face-to-face connection
  • + Unique angle of penetration
  • + Deep emotional intimacy

Cons

  • - Can be awkward to get into
  • - Limited movement

Tips

  • * Take your time getting into the reversed position
  • * Focus on the emotional connection

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Reverse Connection position:

Misaligning the reversed position

The reverse connection requires precise alignment. Being too far off-center makes penetration difficult or uncomfortable.

Breaking eye contact

The reversed face-to-face position is about maintaining emotional connection despite the unusual angle. Breaking eye contact loses the intimacy.

Moving too aggressively

The reversed angle creates unique internal stimulation that can be intense. Moving too hard or fast can be overwhelming. Start gently.

Not communicating about the new sensations

The reversed angle is novel for most couples. Not communicating about the unique sensations means missing the discovery aspect.

Variations to Try

Once you've mastered the basic Reverse Connection, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:

1

Add a Pillow

Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.

2

Incorporate Manual Stimulation

Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.

3

Slow Down the Pace

Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.

4

Try Different Surfaces

Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.

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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell

Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality

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Reviewed by Dr. James Chen

Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience

Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team

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