Shameless
A completely exposed position with no shame.
About This Position
The receiving partner is completely exposed and open, with no attempt to be modest. This position is about embracing shamelessness and being completely uninhibited in your pleasure.
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Step-by-Step Guide
The receiving partner is completely exposed and open, with no attempt to be modest. The position is about embracing shamelessness.
Tip: Embrace the shamelessness — let go of inhibitions and focus on pleasure.
The penetrating partner takes full advantage of the open position for deep penetration. The deep spot, G-spot, and cervix are all accessible.
Tip: The G-spot is rated 4/5 — the open position allows targeted stimulation.
Focus on pleasure without worrying about appearance. The shameless position is about uninhibited enjoyment.
Tip: The penetrating partner has maximum access to the entire body.
The deep penetration from the open position is intense. The full access allows for stimulation of multiple areas simultaneously.
Tip: This is a Hard difficulty position — the emotional openness required is significant.
Communicate about what feels good. The full access allows for varied stimulation — experiment with different combinations.
Tip: The core and hip flexors maintain the open position.
The shameless position creates a feeling of complete freedom. The lack of modesty removes social pressure and performance anxiety.
Tip: Use hands for self-stimulation — the open position makes clitoral access easy.
The shameless position is about being completely uninhibited in your pleasure. Embrace the freedom and enjoy.
Tip: The penetrating partner should express admiration and desire to reinforce the shameless confidence.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Creates a feeling of complete freedom
- + Very arousing and exciting
- + No holding back
Cons
- - Can feel too exposed for some
- - Requires confidence and comfort
Tips
- * Embrace the shamelessness and let go of inhibitions
- * Focus on pleasure without worrying about appearance
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Shameless position:
Feeling too self-conscious
The shameless position requires complete openness. If the receiving partner feels self-conscious, the position loses its uninhibited nature. Focus on pleasure, not appearance.
Not embracing the vulnerability
The shameless position is about vulnerability and freedom. Holding back or being modest defeats the purpose.
The penetrating partner not expressing desire
The receiving partner is completely exposed. If the penetrating partner doesn't express admiration and desire, the receiving partner may feel judged rather than desired.
Forgetting the physical pleasure
The shameless position is about emotional freedom AND physical pleasure. Don't forget to use the full access for maximum stimulation.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Shameless, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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