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#80 Intimate Easy

Side Saddle

A comfortable side-sitting position for relaxed pleasure.

Medically Reviewed by Dr. James Chen, Board-Certified OB/GYN
Side Saddle sex position illustration - A comfortable side-sitting position for relaxed pleasure.
Penetration: Medium
Stimulation: G-spot

About This Position

The receiving partner sits side-saddle on the penetrating partner's lap while they sit. This comfortable position allows for intimate connection while being easy to maintain.

Best For

ComfortIntimacyRelaxation

Step-by-Step Guide

1

The penetrating partner sits while the receiving partner sits side-saddle on their lap. The side-sitting position is comfortable and easy to maintain.

Tip: The side-saddle position allows for intimate connection with minimal physical effort.

2

Adjust the angle for different sensations. The side-sitting creates a unique angle that differs from forward-facing seated positions.

Tip: The G-spot is rated 3/5 — the medium penetration depth from the side angle is moderate.

3

Use hands for additional stimulation. The face-to-face orientation makes touching natural and intimate.

Tip: The core and hip flexors maintain the side-sitting position with minimal effort.

4

The side-saddle position is very comfortable and easy to maintain for longer sessions. The relaxed posture doesn't tire quickly.

Tip: This is an Easy difficulty position — the comfortable seated position is very accessible.

5

Adjust the side-sitting angle to change the depth and stimulation. Leaning forward or backward modifies the internal targeting.

Tip: The receiving partner can use hands on the seated partner's shoulders for balance.

6

The side-saddle position is great for intimate connection. The comfortable seated posture allows for extended, relaxed lovemaking.

Tip: Whisper and maintain closeness for maximum intimacy.

7

The penetrating partner can control the movement from the seated position. The stable base provides controlled, gentle thrusting.

Tip: The medium penetration depth is ideal for comfortable, sustained stimulation.

Medical References & Sources

The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:

Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.

Pros

  • + Very comfortable and easy
  • + Great for intimate connection
  • + Easy to maintain for longer sessions

Cons

  • - Limited penetration depth
  • - Can be passive for the receiving partner

Tips

  • * Adjust the angle for different sensations
  • * Use hands for additional stimulation

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Side Saddle position:

Poor side-saddle alignment

The side-sitting position requires proper hip alignment. If the receiving partner sits crookedly, the angle is wrong and penetration may be uncomfortable.

Being too passive

The side-saddle position allows for grinding and rocking. Being completely passive misses the movement possibilities this position offers.

Not adjusting the angle

The side-sitting angle determines stimulation. Not adjusting the lean or hip position means missing the variety this position offers.

Expecting deep stimulation

The side-saddle is rated medium penetration depth. The comfortable, intimate nature compensates for lack of depth.

Variations to Try

Once you've mastered the basic Side Saddle, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:

1

Add a Pillow

Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.

2

Incorporate Manual Stimulation

Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.

3

Slow Down the Pace

Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.

4

Try Different Surfaces

Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.

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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell

Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality

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Reviewed by Dr. James Chen

Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience

Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team

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