Tugboat
A pulling, towing position with a nautical theme.
About This Position
The receiving partner lies on their back while the penetrating partner grabs their hips and pulls them back and forth like a tugboat towing a ship. This creates a pulling, towing sensation that's unique and thrilling.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Hamstrings
- Hip flexors
- Lower back
- Core
Angle of Penetration
Deep penetration, angle varies with pulling motion
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
The receiving partner lies on their back at the edge of the bed, hips near the edge. The penetrating partner stands at the foot of the bed and grabs the receiving partner's ankles firmly — this grip is the "tow rope" that controls the entire position.
Enter while holding the ankles — the standing position and leg grip give the penetrating partner complete control over depth. The receiving partner is in a passive position, their legs controlled by the partner.
The penetrating partner pulls the receiving partner toward them by drawing the legs forward — this pulls the receiving partner's hips to the bed edge, creating deep penetration. The pulling motion should feel like towing.
Then push the legs back, sliding the receiving partner away — creating shallow withdrawal. The alternating pull (deep) and push (shallow) creates the tugboat's signature towing sensation.
Alternate between pulling (deep) and pushing (shallow) in a rhythmic towing motion. The alternating depths create a wave-like sensation — deep pressure followed by release, building anticipation with each cycle.
The receiving partner can signal intensity by resisting the pull (tightening leg muscles) or yielding (relaxing legs). Resisting increases the tugging force; yielding makes it gentler. This resistance/yielding dynamic is the playful core.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Requires significant strength and balance from one or both partners.
- ! Keep sessions brief to avoid fatigue.
Modifications
- * Start with simpler variations and progress gradually.
- * Use a soft surface for safety.
Not recommended during pregnancy — the position may be uncomfortable or unsafe.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Unique pulling sensation
- + Deep penetration
- + Full control by the penetrating partner
Cons
- - Can be too rough for some
- - Requires coordination
Tips
- * Start with gentle pulls and increase gradually
- * Communicate about the intensity
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Tugboat position:
Gripping legs too loosely
The Tugboat requires a firm, secure grip on the legs. A loose grip means the legs slip during pulling, breaking the rhythm and potentially causing the penetrating partner to stumble forward. The grip should be confident and secure.
Pulling too hard initially
The pulling motion can be jarring if started at full force. Beginning with gentle tugs and gradually increasing intensity allows both partners to acclimate to the sensation. Starting rough can cause hip or lower back strain.
Not communicating about roughness
The tugging dynamic can easily cross from playful to uncomfortable if not communicated. The receiving partner must say if the pulling is too rough, and the penetrating partner must check in about intensity. Without communication, this position can cause injury.
Bed edge too low
If the bed is too low, the receiving partner's body drags on the floor during the pulling motion. The bed should be high enough that the receiving partner's body clears the floor when pulled toward the edge. A low bed makes the mechanics impossible.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Tugboat, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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