Is the Concubine position safe during pregnancy?

Yes, the Concubine position is generally considered safe during pregnancy. Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.

What difficulty level is the Concubine position?

The Concubine is a medium difficulty position. It requires medium flexibility and causes moderate joint stress.

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Concubine

A position of devotion and dedicated pleasure.

Medically Reviewed by Dr. James Chen, Board-Certified OB/GYN

Penetration: Deep

Stimulation: G-spot

About This Position

A position inspired by the historical role of a concubine — devoted entirely to the partner's pleasure. The receiving partner positions themselves to serve their partner's pleasure while also receiving in return.

Best For

DevotionPleasureDedication

Anatomy & Physiology

Muscle Groups Involved

Glutes
Hip flexors
Core
Inner thighs

Angle of Penetration

Deep penetration, angle varies with positioning

Targeted Pleasure Zones

G-spotDeep spotAnterior wallAnterior vaginal wall

Body Contact Points

Chest to chestPelvis to pelvisHands on hips or chestFace to face

Step-by-Step Guide

The receiving partner lies on their back and raises their legs, spreading them wide — the Concubine position is about presenting yourself devotedly for your partner's pleasure.

The penetrating partner kneels between the open legs, entering from a kneeling position — the devoted, kneeling posture is part of the position's historical dynamic.

Enter deeply at the angle the open legs create — Concubine is designed for deep, devoted penetration that focuses on the penetrating partner's angle of choice.

The receiving partner remains open and still, offering themselves — the position is about one partner's devoted presentation and the other's appreciative reception.

The penetrating partner takes their time, exploring the angle with deliberate, savoring strokes — the devoted presentation deserves appreciative, unhurried attention.

Alternate who takes the devoted position — Concubine works best when partners take turns being the devoted one, maintaining fairness and variety.

Safety & Precautions

Warnings

! Communicate with your partner about comfort throughout.

Modifications

* Use pillows for support and comfort.
* Adjust the angle or depth based on your partner's feedback.

Flexibility: Medium Joint Stress: Moderate Pregnancy Safe

Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.

Medical References & Sources

The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:

Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.

Pros

+ Creates a devoted, devoted dynamic
+ Deep penetration
+ Can feel romantic in a historical way
+ Focuses on the partner's pleasure

Cons

- May feel too one-sided
- Requires a willing partner
- Can feel old-fashioned

Tips

* Embrace the role — it's about devotion
* Communicate about what feels good
* Take turns being the concubine for fairness

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Concubine position:

Making it feel one-sided without reciprocity

Concubine intentionally focuses on one partner's pleasure, but taking turns is essential. Never being the devoted one creates resentment over time.

Not appreciating the presentation

The receiving partner is offering themselves devotedly. The penetrating partner should express verbal appreciation and take their time — rushing through the devotion defeats its purpose.

Expecting the receiver to be active

In the Concubine position, the receiver is intentionally passive and presentational. Expecting them to actively thrust or move contradicts the position's devoted dynamic.

Maintaining the position too long

Holding the wide-open, legs-up position can tire the hip flexors. The receiver should rest their legs periodically or place them on the partner's shoulders for support.