Holiday
A vacation-style position for exotic locations.
About This Position
The receiving partner lies on the edge of a bed, pool, or any vacation surface while the penetrating partner stands and enters. This position is about the thrill of sex in exotic, unexpected locations — your own private holiday.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Hip flexors
- Core
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Deep penetration, angle varies with positioning
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
Find a surface at the right height — hotel bed edge, pool deck, balcony railing, or any sturdy vacation surface. The Holiday is about using unexpected surfaces for spontaneous pleasure.
The receiving partner sits or lies on the edge of the surface, with the penetrating partner standing. The surface height should place the receiving partner's pelvis at the penetrating partner's waist height.
Enter from the standing position — the elevated surface creates a deep penetration angle. The novelty of the location adds excitement that enhances the physical sensation.
Use the surface for leverage — the receiving partner can grip the edge for stability while the penetrating partner controls the movement. The unfamiliar location creates a thrill that intensifies the experience.
Be aware of surroundings — the Holiday is about adventure, but getting caught isn't the goal. Check for privacy, be ready to stop, and keep the excitement within appropriate boundaries.
Enjoy the novelty — the Holiday's main appeal is the exotic location and spontaneous energy. The physical position is simple; the context makes it exciting.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Communicate with your partner about comfort throughout.
Modifications
- * Use pillows for support and comfort.
- * Adjust the angle or depth based on your partner's feedback.
Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Works on many surfaces
- + Spontaneous and exciting
- + Great angle for deep penetration
Cons
- - Can be risky if in a public location
- - Requires a surface at the right height
Tips
- * Scout locations for the best surfaces
- * Be aware of your surroundings
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Holiday position:
Not checking surface stability
Vacation surfaces vary wildly in stability — hotel furniture, pool decks, beach towels on sand. Always test the surface before committing. An unstable surface ruins the experience and can cause injury.
Ignoring privacy
The Holiday is about adventure, not exposure to non-consenting people. Always check for privacy — closed doors, empty areas, no windows. Getting caught creates legal and emotional consequences.
Being too nervous to enjoy it
The novelty of an exotic location can create anxiety that overrides pleasure. If either partner is too nervous, the excitement becomes stress. Only do this if both partners feel comfortable and safe.
Forgetting practical considerations
Vacation sex has practical concerns — condoms, lube, towels, cleanup. Don't let spontaneity override preparation. Being prepared enhances the experience; being unprepared creates problems.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Holiday, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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