Curiosity
An exploratory position for discovering new sensations.
About This Position
A position designed for exploration and discovery. Both partners try new angles, movements, and rhythms together, driven by curiosity about what feels good. It's about experimentation and learning about each other's bodies.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Hip flexors
- Core
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Straight-on, medium depth with adjustable angle
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
The receiving partner lies on their back with knees slightly bent — this is the exploratory starting position, open and accessible for trying different angles.
The penetrating partner positions themselves between the legs and enters at a medium depth — Curiosity is about exploration, so start with a neutral angle you can easily adjust from.
Begin with slow, exploratory movements — try shifting slightly left, slightly right, deeper, shallower — each micro-movement tests a different angle against the G-spot and A-spot.
The receiving partner provides real-time feedback — say "that angle feels amazing" or "try more to the left" — Curiosity works best when both partners are actively discovering together.
Try an unusual angle or body configuration that you haven't tried before — lean forward, shift to the side, raise the hips — the experiment IS the position.
When you discover a new angle that creates unexpected pleasure, stay there and explore it further — the curiosity has been rewarded, now appreciate the discovery.
Combine the exploration with varied rhythms — slow and teasing, then slightly faster — the different tempos reveal how the same angle can feel completely different.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Communicate with your partner about comfort throughout.
Modifications
- * Use pillows for support and comfort.
- * Adjust the angle or depth based on your partner's feedback.
Generally safe during pregnancy — adjust depth and pace for comfort.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Encourages trying new things
- + Great for learning about each other
- + Can discover new pleasure zones
- + Keeps things exciting and fresh
Cons
- - May not always hit the spot
- - Requires communication during
- - Can feel uncertain at first
Tips
- * Try different angles and see what works
- * Give real-time feedback about what feels good
- * Don't be afraid to try something new
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Curiosity position:
Sticking with what already works
Curiosity is about discovering NEW sensations. If you default to the same angle and rhythm that always works, you're not exploring — you're doing a standard position with extra steps.
Not communicating during exploration
The receiving partner's feedback is essential for Curiosity to work. Without real-time guidance, the penetrating partner is guessing blindly about which angles to try next.
Rushing past the awkward moments
Some experimental angles won't feel good — that's part of the discovery. Laughing off the misses and staying curious about the hits is the right mindset. Don't get frustrated.
Treating it as a means to orgasm
Curiosity is about the journey of discovery, not the destination. If you rush toward orgasm, you skip the exploratory pleasure that makes this position unique.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Curiosity, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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