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Eiffel Tower

A three-person position with DP and oral stimulation.

Medically Reviewed by Dr. James Chen, Board-Certified OB/GYN
Eiffel Tower sex position illustration - A three-person position with DP and oral stimulation.
Penetration: Deep
Stimulation: G-spot

About This Position

A variation of doggy style where a third partner stands in front for oral stimulation while the penetrating partner enters from behind. Named after the iconic tower shape created by the three bodies.

Best For

ThreesomeMultiple stimulationVisual

Clitoral Stimulation

Good clitoral stimulation from the oral partner while being penetrated.

The front partner provides direct oral stimulation to the clitoris.

G-Spot Stimulation

Good G-spot stimulation from the rear penetration angle.

The doggy-style angle targets the G-spot effectively.

Anatomy & Physiology

Muscle Groups Involved

  • Core
  • Hip flexors
  • Arms
  • Jaw
  • Neck

Angle of Penetration

Rear entry from behind, deep penetration

Targeted Pleasure Zones

G-spotDeep spotClitoris (from oral)Mouth and throat

Body Contact Points

Hands on bedMouth to genitalsPelvis to buttocksMultiple points of contact

Step-by-Step Guide

1

The receiving partner gets on all fours in a doggy-style position on a comfortable surface. The hands and knees provide the base for the three-person configuration.

Tip: All three partners should discuss boundaries and consent before starting — this is a threesome position.

2

The penetrating partner kneels behind the receiving partner, entering from behind. The rear-entry angle targets the G-spot (rated 4/5) from the standard doggy angle.

Tip: The receiving partner's core and hip flexors support the all-fours position while being entered from behind.

3

A third partner stands or kneels in front of the receiving partner, positioning their genitals at the receiving partner's mouth level.

Tip: The mouth-to-genitals body contact point with the front partner provides oral stimulation simultaneously.

4

The receiving partner gives oral to the front partner while being entered from behind. This dual stimulation is the core experience of the Eiffel Tower.

Tip: The jaw and neck muscles work to maintain oral stimulation while the core supports the all-fours position.

5

All three partners communicate about pace and comfort. The receiving partner is receiving stimulation from two directions and needs to coordinate both.

Tip: The receiving partner can signal if either the front or back stimulation needs adjustment.

6

The penetrating partners can coordinate their rhythm to create synchronized pleasure for the receiving partner. Alternating rhythm can also create varied sensation.

Tip: Use protection and practice safe sex with multiple partners — STI protection is essential.

7

Take breaks and check in with all partners regularly. This is physically and emotionally demanding for all three people involved.

Tip: The clitoris (rated 4/5) receives stimulation from the oral partner while being penetrated — a unique combination.

Safety & Precautions

Warnings

  • ! Requires three people who are all comfortable and consenting.
  • ! Can be logistically challenging — communicate boundaries beforehand.
  • ! Use protection and practice safe sex with multiple partners.

Modifications

  • * Start with all partners getting to know each other's boundaries first.
  • * Use dental dams for oral protection with multiple partners.
Flexibility: Medium Joint Stress: Moderate

Not recommended during pregnancy — the intensity and multiple partners pose risks.

Medical References & Sources

The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:

Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.

Pros

  • + Multiple points of stimulation
  • + Exciting for all involved
  • + Visual and physical pleasure

Cons

  • - Requires three people
  • - Can be logistically challenging

Tips

  • * Communicate boundaries before starting
  • * Make sure everyone is comfortable with their role

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Eiffel Tower position:

Not discussing boundaries beforehand

A threesome position requires explicit consent and boundary discussion before starting. All three partners must be comfortable with their roles. Surprises or assumptions about what is acceptable can cause emotional harm.

The receiving partner overextending

The receiving partner is doing double duty — giving oral while being penetrated. This is physically demanding. Not taking breaks leads to jaw fatigue, arm strain, and diminished pleasure for all.

Poor physical positioning

If the front partner is too high or too low, the receiving partner strains to reach. All three bodies need to be properly aligned before stimulation begins.

Ignoring the receiving partner's limits

The receiving partner is the focal point but can be overwhelmed by dual stimulation. Both penetrating partners must check in about comfort and not assume more is always better.

Variations to Try

Once you've mastered the basic Eiffel Tower, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:

1

Add a Pillow

Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.

2

Incorporate Manual Stimulation

Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.

3

Slow Down the Pace

Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.

4

Try Different Surfaces

Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.

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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell

Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality

JC

Reviewed by Dr. James Chen

Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience

Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team

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