Master
A dominant position with the penetrating partner in full control.
About This Position
The penetrating partner takes full control, directing the pace, depth, and angle while the receiving partner submits to their command. This position is about power, control, and the thrill of being led.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Glutes
- Hip flexors
- Core
- Inner thighs
Angle of Penetration
Deep penetration, angle varies with positioning
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
Establish clear boundaries, safe words, and consent before beginning — Master is a dominant position that requires explicit agreement about control levels.
The receiving partner positions themselves in the agreed-upon pose — lying back, bent over, or however the dominant partner directs.
The penetrating partner takes control of the angle, depth, and pace — entering deliberately and setting the rhythm from the first stroke.
Direct the receiving partner's body with firm but safe hands — move their legs, shift their hips, guide their position. The control is physical, not just verbal.
Maintain the dominant rhythm while checking in about comfort — being dominant means being attentive, not reckless. A good master reads their partner's responses.
Aftercare is essential — after the intensity of a dominant position, comfort each other, check in emotionally, and reconnect.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Requires significant strength and balance from one or both partners.
- ! Keep sessions brief to avoid fatigue.
Modifications
- * Start with simpler variations and progress gradually.
- * Use a soft surface for safety.
Not recommended during pregnancy — the position may be uncomfortable or unsafe.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Full control for the dominant partner
- + Can be very exciting and intense
- + Creates a power dynamic
- + Deep penetration with control
Cons
- - Requires a willing submissive partner
- - Can feel too controlling if not consensual
- - The receiver has limited control
Tips
- * Always discuss power dynamics beforehand
- * Use safe words for comfort
- * The master should be attentive to the partner's responses
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Master position:
Ignoring safe words or limits
A Master who ignores boundaries isn't dominant — they're reckless. Safe words and pre-discussed limits are what make power play safe and enjoyable.
Being dominant without being attentive
True dominance requires reading the partner's body language, breathing, and responses. A Master who doesn't pay attention to their partner's comfort is just being rough.
Skipping aftercare
Intense dominant play can bring up strong emotions. Skipping aftercare leaves the receiving partner feeling used rather than cherished. Always reconnect afterward.
Assuming dominance means being harsh
Master is about control and direction, not cruelty. Being firm and decisive while maintaining care and attentiveness creates the most intense power dynamic.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Master, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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