Pointer
Point your partner in the right direction with this guided position.
About This Position
The receiving partner lies on their back while the penetrating partner holds one of their legs straight up or to the side, pointing it in a specific direction. This guided leg positioning changes the angle of penetration and targets specific areas.
Best For
Anatomy & Physiology
Muscle Groups Involved
- Quadriceps
- Glutes
- Core
Angle of Penetration
Variable — the angle depends on the height difference and leg position
Targeted Pleasure Zones
Body Contact Points
Step-by-Step Guide
The receiving partner lies on their back on a bed edge, raising one leg straight up toward the ceiling while the other leg remains bent or hangs off the bed — the pointed leg creates the "pointer" angle.
The penetrating partner stands at the bed edge, holding the raised leg at the ankle or calf to guide and control the angle of penetration.
Enter at whatever angle the raised leg creates — the single-leg elevation tilts the pelvis and targets either the G-spot (if the leg is angled toward the receiving partner) or the A-spot (if angled away).
Experiment with moving the raised leg left, right, forward, or backward — each direction shifts the penetration angle and stimulates different areas of the vaginal walls.
The receiving partner can hold their own leg for support, freeing the penetrating partner's hands to caress other erogenous zones or control the hip angle.
Switch which leg is raised to explore different angles — the asymmetric positioning means each side produces distinctly different sensations.
Safety & Precautions
Warnings
- ! Requires strength and balance from the standing partner.
- ! Can be tiring quickly — keep sessions brief.
Modifications
- * Use a wall for additional support.
- * The receiving partner should help by gripping tightly.
Not recommended during pregnancy — the position may be uncomfortable or unsafe.
Medical References & Sources
The information on this page has been reviewed for accuracy by certified health professionals. The following peer-reviewed and authoritative sources were used in developing this guide:
- • Mayo Clinic — Sexual Health
- • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Sexual Health
- • National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD)
- • Cleveland Clinic — Sexual Health
- • Healthline — Healthy Sex & Relationships
Health Disclaimer: Always consult a healthcare professional before trying new positions, especially if you have back pain, joint issues, are pregnant, or have any medical condition. Stop immediately if you experience pain.
Pros
- + Allows precise angle control
- + Can target specific areas
- + Unique sensation
- + Standing partner has control
Cons
- - Requires flexibility
- - Can be awkward
- - Standing partner may tire
Tips
- * Experiment with different leg positions
- * Communicate about which angle feels best
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the right technique, small errors can reduce pleasure or increase injury risk. Here are the most common mistakes couples make with the Pointer position:
Raising the leg too high for flexibility limits
The leg should be elevated enough to change the angle but not so high that the receiving partner's hamstrings or hip flexors strain. Comfort sets the limit.
Not exploring different leg directions
The whole point of Pointer is directional control. Keeping the leg in one fixed position ignores the angle-variation capability that makes this position unique.
The penetrating partner holding the leg too rigidly
The leg should be guided, not clamped. Rigid holding restricts the receiving partner's ability to make micro-adjustments for comfort and pleasure.
Ignoring the A-spot angle
The single-leg elevation specifically targets the anterior fornix when angled correctly. If you're not feeling deep, emotional A-spot stimulation, adjust the leg direction.
Variations to Try
Once you've mastered the basic Pointer, these variations can add new sensations and keep things exciting:
Add a Pillow
Place a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle of penetration and enhance stimulation.
Incorporate Manual Stimulation
Use hands to add clitoral or other external stimulation during the position for enhanced pleasure.
Slow Down the Pace
Switch from thrusting to grinding for a more intimate, sensation-focused experience.
Try Different Surfaces
Move from the bed to a couch, standing, or against a wall for different angles and experiences.
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Written by Dr. Sarah Mitchell
Certified Sex Therapist, PhD in Human Sexuality
Reviewed by Dr. James Chen
Board-Certified OB/GYN, 15+ Years Experience
Last reviewed: July 2026 | Content medically verified | Meet our full team
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